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jenni_b
#1 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 10:14:51 AM Quote
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Is supposed to be in touch today.

Was supposed to be admitted is it 5 wks ago now?

TBH. even if he gave a date in January I would be happier.

right now, its a battle I cannot fight but if I dont get something from them this wk it will be a formal complaint.

I know I need him and so to keep him on side would be nice, but the fact is he has done nothing.

is this too harsh?

Jenni x
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#2 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 11:37:41 AM Quote
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No it is certainly not too harsh, although i really hope someone else will support you with this though as making a formal complaint can take so much out of you physically and emotionally and that is the last thing you need
Perhaps someone can formally complain on your behalf, or go through PALs or similar?
Take care, Jenni lots of love Liz xx
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#3 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 12:28:53 PM Quote
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Jenni,

You get thos Red boots shining and ON! It really is just too bad of your Rheumy to be so lax. If only you lived in my neck of the woods, you would have access to the three female consultants who, in my opinion, are the best in their field.

I'll say an extra prayer for you on this isssue and will continue to pray for all the family.

Bob
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#4 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 12:54:04 PM Quote
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Smile Hello Jenni
Done nothing well then yes you do what you feel is best,certainly doesnt sound right in my opionion especially sinceyour gp been in contact and still nothing.
very much a lack of care to you which makes me not ony cross but sad that u suffer with so little care from you rheumy.
sending u big hug.
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#5 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 1:20:24 PM Quote
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No Jenni, it is not too harsh!
You have let it go because you have other things on your mind, but he doesn't know that and his lack of communication and care should be complained about.

Love, Doreen xx
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#6 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 1:49:35 PM Quote
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Jenni I think you are being treated badly and should complain there are ways of complaining and a nice polite but strong letter does help . People have forgotton the letter but it can be powerful, have a go, if you can't write it get someone else to do it Love David
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#7 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 5:21:32 PM Quote
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Just appalling, Jenni. As Bob says, red boots shined and ready! You kick some ass my friend - as HARD as you can.
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#8 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 5:44:29 PM Quote
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I absolutely agree with everyone!

I know this is most definitely not the right time to find more energy to fight this...but you haven't been treated well enough by the Dr.

Prayers for you as ever,
Amanda
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#9 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 5:45:04 PM Quote
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Start sharpeing the axe - off with their heads I say! Have you had any follow up eg blood tests?

XX
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#10 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 5:49:06 PM Quote
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Have you heard anything Jenni? You can do without the rheumy messing you around when you have such critical meetings today and tomorrow. Hoping you've had some luck.

Julie
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#11 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 6:20:16 PM Quote
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Dearest Jenni,

I agree with everything that has been said, Bob's right you need to get your RED BOOTS on, this really is not on.

Have you contacted PALS at the hospital, perhaps they could advocate on your behalf?

Hope all goes well with the forthcoming meetings,

Love,

Barbara
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#12 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 7:27:45 PM Quote
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Jenni, completely agree with everyone, its disgraceful treatment.
Hope your other meeting goes well,thinking of you x
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#13 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 8:37:43 PM Quote
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Dear Jenni, I agree with Doreen, perhaps your Mum could phone your Rheumy's secretery and appeal to her on your behalf. It's not right it seems that nothing is going smooth for you at all just now. Hope that you here something soon five weeks is just terrible. Take care love from Glenys x
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#14 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 9:04:46 PM Quote
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Jenni, I totally agree with everyone else, this is not acceptable treatment. Go for it, girl!

Anthea x
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#15 Posted : Tuesday, December 08, 2009 11:39:36 PM Quote
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Laugh do it i had a moan at the hospital today for not doing as they said .

5 weeks is too long it may mean you are forgoton i hope not .Now get in stirring .
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#16 Posted : Wednesday, December 09, 2009 10:00:13 AM Quote
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Thinking of you all today, lovely Jenni. Praying for the funding to be in place by the end of the day.
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#17 Posted : Wednesday, December 09, 2009 7:12:55 PM Quote
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spoke to the secretary before I went to the meeting this morning.

Basically my notes are down in endocrinology now as I have an appt coming up.

YAWN.

Maybe endocrinology will do something! (oink oink, flap, flap)
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#18 Posted : Wednesday, December 09, 2009 8:35:22 PM Quote
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Smile Hi Jenni ohh what are they playing at well i pray endo lot do make action for you,its just not on at all.
if was them they would want things put into motion asap.
utake care now catch up when i return from holiday.
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#19 Posted : Thursday, December 10, 2009 3:29:28 PM Quote
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Hi jenni

I'm sorry to see that you're still the same, and things aren't moving. It beggars belief that nothing has happened in all this time

I do hope your other meeting went well, and you got the outcome you were hoping for.

Love Lyn
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#20 Posted : Thursday, December 10, 2009 3:38:58 PM Quote
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Jenni, I can't believe they haven't done anything for you!! I hope they sort something soon.

Deb x
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